Silence is Golden.

When I was leaving primary school, I remember my teacher saying ‘Silence is Golden. It was wonderful having you.’ In a class full of noisy children, I guess it’s no real surprise that I stood out. Now, all these many years later in a world surrounded by endless voices, I remain happy to switch off and stay in my writing cave.

For over twelve months now, as I have focused on my health and well-being, I have come to realise how important these two things are, as well as finding out what really makes me happy. These past few months have been a learning curve, physically, mentally, and emotionally.

I have learned to spend less time on social media, and although difficult at first, it resulted in me having more time to spend on other things. I have always regarded it as a distraction, and as I spent more time on it, I found myself focusing my energy on marketing rather than on writing my stories. Lately, I can spend days without being on social media, which is beneficial to my mental health, and why I will continue to do so.

Physically, I have improved too. I needed to make some difficult but necessary decisions, but with the help of a physiotherapist, and a slight change in my diet, I no longer require medication for my chronic pain. On a recent walk in a national park, I tested out my new hiking poles, eventually leaving my husband to read in the car as I kept on going!

If you’ve been with me for a while, you will know that I have also spent the past two years looking for work without success. I am happy to say that as of next year (2025), I will be employed as a casual administration officer at my children’s old school! Hopefully, it could lead to something more, but for now, it’s a step in the right direction. So far, the new year is looking positive! 😊

So, what does all this have to do with being quiet?

There can be times in a person’s life when one needs to take a step back and switch off. Things can become overwhelming, whether it’s personal or on the world stage. Keeping to oneself can give a person time and perspective to gather their thoughts before they can take the next step. Being a solitary endeavour, writing requires a clear head, free from distractions. It may have taken me twelve months, but I feel I am in a better place and I’m happier to move forward.

This Christmas/New Year period, I hope you manage to take some time out for yourself if you can; it’s been quite a year. If you can’t, give the ones you love a hug. I think we could all do with one of those!

Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas, happy holidays, and a safe and happy new year!